Give me love…

What is necessary after a physically taxing workout? Maybe some stretching or icing the body, a massage and some nutritious meal. You take care of the body. Having the same concept in mind let’s think about a relationship during a fight. We can agree that fights are taxing to both people in the relationship. Both…

Marriage 1.0…

Marriage is not for the faint of heart. You love and you hate. You give and you get. Sometimes you give and you give and you give… then you wake up and you are already mad at your spouse for the simple fact that they are breathing. There is nothing that comes out of their…

30…

In my 30’s. I thought that by the age of thirty I’d have at least 3 kids, a nice new car, a huge house, a dream job or maybe not even working because my husband and I would be rich. Did I mention that I’d be traveling the word on yearly vacations. I am five…

I feel pretty…

On days that I am lacking motivation and self confidence I practice self love. I put on a nice dress (because it’s the easiest way to put an outfit together lol). Then I put some makeup on, not because I feel like I need makeup to be beautiful, because I want to do something out…

Shame…

I just had to post about this really quick. A person struggling with infertility should not feel ashamed or embarrassed or be shamed for being open and honest about their struggles. I already feel horrible enough as it is. Why do you (any negative person out there) feel like you have the right to try…

My thoughts…

My life is far from perfect. I suffer from insecurities and self doubt. Maintaining a positive lifestyle is easier said than done. It requires every ounce on my being sometimes. When negative thoughts come I evaluate them. Where did it come from and why do I feel that way? I try to understand my feelings…

Sensitive…

I feel my depression creeping in on me and my sensitivity has been oh high. I keep doing what I can to not let those negative feelings dominate my life. I’m writing this post to show everyone that even though one strives to live a positive lifestyle there are moments where we aren’t so positive.What…

The art of smiling…

In my journey to find happiness, the best decision I made was to practice smiling. I had been in a very dark place in my life. I lost myself and I forgot who I was. I woke up and went to brush my teeth and realized that I didn’t smile anymore. I looked at my…

“Dealing” with my significant other…

People ask me how I deal with my husband when we are having disagreements. Let me start by saying that we both had to learn and continue to learn how to effectively communicate. One of the things I try to do is listen to what his point is instead of listening just to find my…

Infertility is Scary, here’s why.

Infertility is Scary, here’s why. https://thecysterstory.com/2018/04/20/infertility-is-scary-and-this-is-why/ — Read on thecysterstory.com/2018/04/20/infertility-is-scary-and-this-is-why/ This post touched me. It is so honest. Infertility is very scary and it makes us feel like failures. It’s not always easy to maintain positive. Wonderful read, please check it out!